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Why?

That way you get an email or notification whenever something changes around here.  When a new blog post hits, an older post is re-posted or edited, or when a comment prompts me to post a disclaimer at the bottom of the post, maybe with some comments.

To be honest, since I do most of my posting for the week late at night, subscribing allows you to see my posts once I’ve had a chance to run the spell checker and check the grammar.

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Guest Blogging time at urban daddy: Elliott Hurst from Supernova.com steps to the plate


It’s about time for another guest blogger.

This time www.supernova.com CEO Elliott Hurst steps up to the plate and provides his insight into the world of social networking and how a movie from the 1980’s called Revenge of the Nerds may have come to life for Facebook CEO MArk Zukerberg.

Elliott, for those of you who may not know, was building Supernova in his basement in Toronto, while Facebook’s Mark Zukerberg was creating the next best addiction in Silicone Valley. There are some parallels…

Elliott, help me here. 🙂

Now on to Mr. Hurst’s post;

I just saw the The Social Network and was very intrigued by the story, the characters and the dialogue. Yes, it’s a really good movie. It may even win Best Picture (however, that is a relative term, and I’m definitely not saying it is in the same class as The Godfather, Rocky, American Beauty, Schindler’s List, etc.), but given today’s offerings, it just might.
Oscars are very political and affected by a myriad of factors including money. It may even win due to the fact that the spectacularly visual Avatar won last year and the Academy’s taste pendulum may swing back to a “substance” movie with a story. Plus, it’s a very hot topic.

Whether the story is 100% true, 50% true or even 10% true, it actually makes no difference, because as a story, it has just the right amounts of sub-text, irony, and tragedy and to make it a compelling film.

Sub-text: man seeks out to show the world his value based on his creation ends up alienating his best friend and business partner due to deep seated resentment towards his personal social success, personal success that eludes man.

Irony: man who creates a revolutionary service based on being social is actually socially inept in real life.

Tragedy: man who gains the respect and adulation of the masses, despite not being born into bourgeoisie blood lines nor being aesthetically or athletically gifted to be popular, can’t parlay that popularity into recapturing the love of his life.

But at the core of this film is a simple message that was first brought to light in the purely fictitious, 80’s gross out comedy franchise, Revenge of the Nerds. The premise? As Imdb puts it; “At a big campus, a group of bullied outcasts and misfits resolve to fight back for their peace and self respect.” Ok, so Zuckerberg wasn’t exactly bullied in The Social Network, but the goal was the same, and he and his computer nerd buddies were outcasts and misfits. The clearest example appeared near the beginning of the film when the popularity of Facemash was spreading like wildfire amongst the cool, popular kids through dorm room parties, while the nerds gathered around their lonely computers hatching the idea and tracking its popularity in solitude. In fact, the nerds turned the cool kids’ narcissism upon themselves to create a site so popular, it shut down the Harvard network within hours.

Facebook has accomplished so much more than that. And other sites like it. And all those sites were created by nerds. They are utilities now, as important to the world as the things that made the cool kids popular in school; sports, heritage, money, aesthetics, etc. Brain power. The nerds have it. The world runs on it.

It is now cool to be a nerd.

What was laughable fiction in the 80’s has actually happened today. Nerds are the new BMOCs. Nerds are the new Rockstars. Nerds are the new Quarterbacks of the football team. Nerds never got the girl. Well, actually, in the end, neither did the nerd in The Social Network. But the reason was best given by Rashinda Jones’ character toward the end of the film where she said, “Mark, you’re not an asshole. You just try too hard to be.” And that’s the tragedy. Whereas in the 80’s hi-jinks screwball comedy nature of Revenge of the Nerds where the main characters remained undaunted in their enthusiasm to prove themselves, the weight of this burden had the reverse effect on The Social Network’s Zuckerberg. Whether he was born with it or it manifested within himself since puberty, Zuckerberg is shown to continuously damage his personal relationships due to deep rooted resentment.

If The Social Network is Revenge of the Nerds 2.0, then today’s Zuckerbergs are finally being given their due.

But at what cost?

Thank you readers for a record month!


Thank you for making January (with one day left) the best month for this blog… EVER.

Hits this month were a quarter more than my previous best month, which was December, and comments this month were a staggering 65% more than my previous best.

I really appreciate each time someone takes the time to read, or comment on something I have written. 

Whether you are reading it directly at www.urbandaddy.wordpress.com, or on Facebook under my profile, or my urbandaddy page (come “like” me), or on Twitter @urbandaddyblog. You have taken the time to click through and I appreciate it.

Let’s have a kick-ass February!

Sincerely,

This urban daddy

Who Unfollowed Me on Twitter


Man, I am such a sucker for these things. First it was who blocked you on messenger, then it was who unfriended you on facebook, now it’s who unfollowed you on twitter.

Why in the world am I obsessed with this knowledge. It’s not like I would do or say anything to those who blocked / unfriended / unfollowed me.

Thankfully I have the inability to focus on a task for long periods of time which explains why I looked at the list of those who unfollowed me (there are over 500) and realized this list is of those who I follow and have not followed back…

I’m too tired to go through this list and remove people.

I do sometimes, okay not often, noticed I have twitter-spam and I removed those folks / bots, and I have noticed some people big into the “You follow me, and I’ll follow you, then you tell two friends and they tell two friends and so on and so on… and moron, and moron.

I’m just getting content with the fact that I followed a lot of people to get followers then realised it was a big waste of time, so I only follow those who I want to know, and don’t care if they follow me back or not.

And every now and then I get feedback from people who do remove me from stuff, like Facebook, over dinner in front of other couple… Oh yes. About 3 years ago a “friend” announced that he “unfriended” me for updating my status too often. He complained that people who do that are losers and have not enough to do.

I smiled, probably quite embarrassed since everyone was watching me, and announced that not only did I not notice his snub, but that he could have blocked my updates, since I have no blackberry / iPhone and was only updating it at night or on weekends…

Needless to say, about a year-and-a-half later there was a friend request from him which I accepted.

I know for a fact he does not read this blog because he wisely blocked my updates.

So what’s up with the rejection-obsession?

And what have you done when you’ve been blocked / unfriended / unfollowed?

What would YOU do if offered $15 Billion dollars


I just read a great blog post on www.supernova.com about Facebook creator Mark Zukerberg and the fact he turned down $15 billion dollars from Microsoft for his social media web-site.

You should read it here; http://ht.ly/3nnIv

It brings to mind the power and control over our lives that Facebook has.  Back when I was growing up, parents were worried of the negative impact that Rock stars had on our lives – from Ozzy Osbourne biting the head off a live chicken and Black Sabbath’s song called Suicide solution to Marilyn Manson and the song by Drowning Pool called Let the Bodies Hit the Floor.  But none of this comes even close to the impact Facebook has on our lives.

We update our status, post pictures, even announce when we break up online… It’s opened up our kimono’s in a very real way.

But if you were Mark Zukerberg, all early 30-ish and single, would you take the $15 billion and go home, or say no thank you and take $15.1 billion from Google?  Or… Tell everyone to go away and hope and pray that the next best thing doesn’t come tomorrow at take the 500 million uses away from your site and put you in the category of the also-rans.

Many other products were huge until someone swooped in and stole their thunder… Is Mark making a wise business decision or a colossal mistake.

What do you think and what would you do in his shoes?