What it means to be a working father of three.

This past weekend definitely a trying weekend for me in my efforts to be a great father.

I was on edge all weekend, probably because this would be the 3rd week in a row I’ve been suffering with my allergies.  I have been unable to wear my contact lenses. My eyes are very red and quite itchy, and my nose and throat have started to itch this week… UGH. I look like I’m on drugs… Not a great look for an office, eh?

I keep forgetting that I should be investing in allergy medication, as all this allergy action has come in the last 5 or 6 years only. I never had allergies as a child.

I am also a bit on edge because our little baby girl, Berry, has been up every 2-3 hours (shades of Stewie) every single night.  While I do not get up everytime the baby does – thank you honey – because this time around, for child #3 I actually have to work.

With child #1, Linus, I took 9 months off paid paternity. With child #2, Stewie, I was off for 4 months on paid paternity (2 of those months were spent laid up with a herniated disc in my lower pack) and with #3, Berry… 1 day at home. It was tax season and I needed to be at the office.

But there are some nights where I am feeling very good and as a result, I have been getting up so urban mummy does not have to, even if that means staying up with the baby past midnight hoping she’ll have that great night’s sleep she needs to stay rejuviated and the baby will tire out and sleep an nour or two more.

Neither of them do…

And to top matters off… the boys have been waking up at at 6am to play, waking me up in the process. 

So allergies, and exhaustion, coupled with 2 rowdy boys and an over-tired wife and look out!

As a result, every little thing drove me crazy this weekend.  Watching the boys play tug-of-war with their expensive throwpillow – with their teeth – drove me batty.  As did walking in the kitchen on cooked rice that the boys dumped on the floor.  Grrr.

I know this is what being a Dad is all about and I know that all I need is one good night’s sleep to get me back on track.

But until them… Look out!



3 thoughts on “What it means to be a working father of three.

  1. urbandaddy September 22, 2010 / 4:46 pm

    Rachel – Err, thanks. I did and you gave me some.

    Eric – No need to feel for me. I feel for you. 4 kids, means the the kid to parent ratio is 2:1. Yikes.

    I too would never ask for a day to sleep in, but I have considered asking my work to send me on short conferences out of town so I can go to be at 6pm. LOL.


  2. Eric September 22, 2010 / 3:07 pm

    I feel you bud. I got four babies and go thru similar cycles. The wife has the kids all day, so I try to tag her out and I’m off work so she can take care of stuff she needs too. It prevents me from projects, but what can I do.

    every now and then I get enough courage to think about asking for a day I can sleep in. Yes it would mean the wife doesnt. But you honestly need your rest too.


  3. Rachel September 21, 2010 / 6:31 pm

    If you asked I would have given you some Reactine.


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