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How did your kids handle the first week of school?

How did your kids handle the first day of school?  How about the first week?

This year I have all three kids in school;

Linus in grade 2.

Stewie entering into senior kindergarten and;

Berry in nursery school.

Back to school has always been a lot of fun for me, since I loved school – I was not as focussed as I should have been, mind you – but I loved school.  Seeing my friends, new classes, new friends, new challenges.

So I was not surprised that my mini-me, Linus had this to say to us at the end of the first day of school; “I LOVED school today”.

Very surprising since he never loves anything in his life, except for his blankie (hence the name Linus) and his kitty (my avatar – that ucky grey – was white – stuffed cat).  The next morning, however, he was back to normal.  Sitting on our bed he had this assessment about his future;

“I’m staying home today.  I’m finished with school”.

Us: “Huh?  What?  You’ve been in grade 2 for only one day!”

Linus:  “I learned everything yesterday.  I’m going to quit school and get a job”.

Us: “What are you going to do with a grade 1 education?”

Linus: “I’m going to be a tax manager, like Daddy!”

Oh boy!

My wife: “Daddy went to grade 2, then all the way through high-school, university, graduate school after and he took lots of courses.  You need to go to school, learn to read, write, and take courses to be something you like.  You said you wanted to be a dentist, or policeman…”

Linus – thinking: “Okay.  I’ll go to school today”.

Then the conversation with Stewie… Ahh, Stewie.

Us: How was school, Stewie?”

Stewie: “It’s too easy.  All they ask me to do is colour.  I’m tired of colouring.  I’m bored”.

And so it goes…

Berry, on the other hand, had to be peeled off of my wife’s leg every day that she has gone to school.  I figure since it took us only a year-and-a-half to get her to bathe without freaking out, she should be fine to go to school on about the second last day of the year…

It’s going to be a long year.

:)

 
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Posted by on September 13, 2011 in Life

 

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What the Fup??? A 6-year-old boy just taught my 6-year-old boy a swear word. WTF?!?

You know…

I always thought the kids would be older when it came time to explain the birds and the bees, and whwn I would need to educate them on which words are the good words and which words are bad words.

I always imagined this conversation would occur when the kids were around 8 or 9 years old.

But 6-years-old???

No way.  This never even crossed my mind that at this age, we would have had the conversation that we did.

So here is the official transcript of the conversation at dinner last week between myself, Linus and my wife / his mother.

As an aside, this came out of nowhere…

Linus: “I almost got in trouble today”.
Me: “Oh, why?”
Him: “Because I said “Fup” and my teacher thought I said a bad word.”
Me: “Fup???”
Looking at my wife in alarm. I said.
Me: “What??? Fup???”
Him: “Yes, Fup.  Fup is not a bad word.  It is Puff backwards.”
Us: “Whew.”

It’s over, right?

Hell, no.

Him: “But you know what is a bad word??? I’ll whisper it to you”.  Then he leans toward my wife and whispers in her ear.  She throws me a look and suggests he tell Daddy too, so he leans over to me and whispers this in my ear; “Cuff backwards is a bad word.”

My wife and I exchange glances of awkwardness.

“Err, yes it is”, I said.  “Who told you that?”

“Einstein did”, he said.

Einstein happens to be the smartest kid in grade one.  Last year he was the smartest kid in senior kindergarden.  Einstein is perfect.  He reads at a grade 6 level, gets extra words for spelling and all the teachers love him.  The kids, on the other hand, are suffering from an inferiority complex because instead of teaching to the masses last year, the teachers instead praised Einstein and compared all the kids to him. 

It was a tough year for a lot of kids.  Lofty, unreasonable expectations lead to disappointments and those can crush kids at that age. 

So anyways, Einstein taught his class this word.  Wonder if he learned it reading a University textbook before bed.  Then again, he was also the kid who told his entire class that Santa Claus was born in Asia…

So now my kid knows that “Fuc(k)” is a bad word.

Great.  We handled it by telling him it was a bad word and could get him tossed out of school, and then we droipped it.  He mentioned it the next day, but never again since.  That is the key to moving past these kinds of obstacles.

Looking forward to Einstein teaching his class about making babies.

Sit tight!

 
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Posted by on May 22, 2011 in family, Linus

 

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Taken to school by a 4-year-old

Being a Dad is great. I get to raise mini-me’s (or more like mini copies of my wife) and I get to educate and teach 3 children to be self-sufficient, respectful, educated contributors to society…

Well that was until this past weekend.

Now I realized the kids are teaching me a thing or two.

OY.

Case 1)

4-year-old Stewie brings my wife’s iPad into our room from his brother’s bedroom where the 2 of them have been playing Angry Birds.  The boys want to show us that they have found plush toys in the Angry Birds characters and they want us to buy them.

“Let me see them”, I ask.

My 4-year-old then reached over to the screen and with his hands he centres the picture and makes it bigger with the moving of fingers.

He did it as if he had done it a thousand times before.

I didn’t know you could do that…

Case 2)

4-year-old Stewie is leaning about dinosaurs in public school and proceeds to tell me a story about palaeontologists and how dinosaurs died when volcanos exploded and the sun went away and earth froze and now palaeontologists come and uncover the bones very carefully…

WOW, I’m thinking.

So then his 6-year-old brother arrives and asks what we are talking about. Being in private school their curriculum not cover dinosaurs so this is all new to him.

I asked Stewie to tell Linus about palaeontologists and Stewie starts to, but is waved off by Linus who then proceeds to grab a book on dinosaurs that was sitting in Stewie’s school basket, then Linus opened the book, looked in the index for palaeontologist – which was on page 26 – so he flipped to that page and started to read it for himself.

Humph.  Using an index at 6…

Case 3)

Stewie’s first word was “iPod”.

Linus’ was iPhone.

Berry sees the iPad and spins around to peek at the screen and see what is there.

All good with social media, just like Mom… Oh, and Daddy.  That’s how I remember the dates of my kids.  #1 was the iPod kid, #2 the iPhone and #3 the iPad.

Case 4)

Linus asked me last month, “Daddy, why do they call you the urban daddy?”

I replied, “because I am, son.”

 
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Posted by on March 7, 2011 in Berry, Life, Linus, school, Stewie, urbandaddyblog

 

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Thursday Thirteen

This week’s Thursday Thirteen will be about 13 really dumb things I did before I reached my Bar Mitzvah (13 years old).

13. Used to actually run away from the girls while playing kissing tag in public school

12. Fell over the handlebars of a friend’s 10-speed bike – landing on my head in the middle of an intersection – knocking myself out in the process.

11. Held my fist beside the face of one of the toughest kids in middle school, then called his name. He turned quickly, his face hit my fist – more specifically his braces chewed apart his lip – and boy was he unhappy… My classmates were surprised that I survived… It was that moment that when I realized that I possessed a high pain threshold.

10. Let a relative stranger pick my first girlfriend at school. We went “around” on and off for a while instead of actually hanging out. Granted he asked me who I “liked” but the whole process was… odd.

9. I found some “adult” magazines in the basement of our house and thought the best thing to do would be to take them to school and sell them. I made a lot of money… Until my friend’s mother became suspicious as to why a 12-year-old carried hundreds of dollars in twenty’s in his wallet.

8. Mullet… Nuff said

7. In Hebrew school, I once filled the teacher’s desk drawer full of whipped cream from the spray can. Why? I had never used a can and wanted to see how much was in it. Problem is… I have a conscience and to this day I imagine the kids coming back from recess and seeing their treat gone. The guilt eats me up inside. If I was faced with the same scenario 100 times over again, I would walk away.

6. I’m not sure how to explain this one – it’s kind of personal – but let me say that it is never a good idea to jump on someone’s back when you are a 250 pound kid for fear that you may slide down their back and pierce a certain low-hanging body part with a thick wood pencil. The tip of the pencil snapped off and later that week I pulled it out… UGH.

5. Piggy-backing on the previous one (pun intended), can you say size 52 tall jacket and size 48 pant…

4. I was a pleaser – that on its own is a dumb thing – but I remember my Dad was in Milwaukee on business and brought back for my sister and I a note pad with Michael Jackson on the front. I was young, he was getting a ton of airplay for Beat It, Billie Jean, and Thriller. So I brought it into school and showed it to a cool girl who I liked. She said she REALLY liked it so I gave it to her thinking she would appreciate it and talk to me. She didn’t. I would spend the rest of the school year seeing her use it, wondering why I gave it to her.

3. As a sufferer of migraines right up until I was 18 years old and had my wisdom teeth out, I spent 4 straight hours outside cutting the grass and digging a vegetable garden then for some stupid reason decided I needed to then ride to the convenience store and but a “Twist Shandy” with 0.5% alcohol to refresh myself.
Being thirsty and nearly exhausted I downed this drink and within one hour had the worst migraine ever which saw me incapacitated for the rest of the weekend in severe pain.

2. In grade 4 I was booted out of French class for not being able to identify a picture my teacher was showing me. I really had no idea and she was so irate that she berated me in front of the class for being juvenile (yeah, and?) and for being a clown. She sent me to the principal’s office and asked him to remove me from the class as she was fed up with my lack of seriousness.
Before the principal called my parents he walked me back to the classroom and asked to see the picture.
The picture contained a church, the moon, a clock that read midnight and snow.
He asked me what I told the teacher it was.
I replied that I thought it was a “rumble” as I did not know what it was.
“You seriously don’t know what this is?” He asked me in an angry tone.
“I have no idea”, I replied, now very close to tears.
“It’s a midnight mass”, he blurted out.
“What?” I said.
“Midnight mass!” he said. “You know, where people go to church…”
“Oh, I cut him off… I’m Jewish”.

Silence…

The teacher and the principal left the room.
When they returned, they apologized to me and explained the picture.
I got a great mark in the class and if I recall, did very little work the rest of the year…

1. I know everyone does this, but it’s still really dumb.
I came home from school one cold winter day and decided to stick my whole tongue, not just the tip, to our front metal screen door.
Then I panicked and ripped it off, sans a lot of skin…

If you could see me, I’m shaking my head right now at this list… What a dumb dumb.

 
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Posted by on June 24, 2010 in Thursday Thirteen

 

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Out of the mouths of babes

My 5 year old had a play date this afternoon with his “silly friend”, a girl from his class.

Just yesterday he told me that he did not want to go to grade one next year, “It’s too much work / too much writing”, he said.  Instead he wanted to be a “general manager”. 

“Where?” I asked him.

“In your work, Daddy”, he replied.

LOL.

But today when I asked him the same question, he had a different answer for my wife and I.

Today he said, “I may change my mind as I get older, and one day I would like to live in the same house with my classmate / playfriend, and we will work together”.

Maybe this will work out after all… He had zero interest in hockey. Told me that when he was three. “Daddy, I don’t like hockey”… But this silly friend of his plays hockey so now he is suddenly interested. He even now knows who Sidney Crosby is.

And… When it comes to rooting for a team he now knows to root for the Canada Leafs (Toronto), and in the past he liked the team that wore red, and Buffalo, NY and NJ because he had been there, and he liked Florida because Disney is there, Ottawa because a classmake moved there and Montreal because his best friend’s grandmother lives there.

 
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Posted by on April 3, 2010 in family

 

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Weekend Update

OY.

What a weekend!  I’m going to need a few days to recover, indeed.

Friday ended for me in the afternoon with a contentious call with the government and the phone being hung up on me in a conference call over some tax related issues.  I left the office to pick up my oldest boy and the other kids in his carpool and just made it in time.  (Heck, it was -16 degrees out there and the kids were outside waiting).  I dropped everyone off, went to get diapers for the baby and ended up dropping my son at Starbucks to hang with his grandparents while I ran into the grocery store.  I came back to pick him up with diapers and bananas only to find him and his grandmother using those wooden stir sticks to teach him about roman numerals.

Once at home I logged back into my office computer to catch up on some work – set the table for dinner, bathed the kids, ate, cleaned and went back to work until about 3am when I decided it was time for bed. 

6:30am wake up.  Got the kids ready for skating (Pancakes for the big boy, oatmeal and raisins for the younger son), and just made it to the arena in time to lace up and jump on the ice.  By just made it I mean my skates were still undone…  One the ice, my little – not so little – boy decided he was not skating and spent most of the time on his ass or his back whining and crying.  I asked him in front of his skating coach if he was having a meltdown and he said, “no”.  OK.  So off the ice we went so he could calm down / pee.  Once in the dressing room we call his mummy and he explained that his feet hurt from the skates.  Too tight.  Hmmmm. 

So back on the ice we went for the last 10 minutes of class.  I signed the boys up for the end of program ice show (LOL) and in my amazement turned to see my 5 year old standing by himself on his skates and jumping up and down on the ice.  “WOW”, I blurted out.  He said he taught himself that, not the instructor.  He’s getting it.  Yay.

So after class we went home – Stewie cried the entire way.  We ate lunch then packed up our stuff and went to the mall for the afternoon.  After finally finding a place to park, I woke up Stewie and Berry (2 month old baby) and in we went.  Part way through the mall trip the boys saw the Godiva store and they were making chocolate dipped strawberries.  Guess what the boys cried and whined for the rest of the afternoon?!?

I also walked into Harry Rosen – again – with the boys and again could not get a sales agent to come up to me.  Even after falling in love with a gorgeous $85.00 dress shirt but wanting to ask a question about it, no one wanted to give me the time of day.  You would think any customer is a good customer, eh?  They don’t know what I can afford and if I am going to buy one shirts to 10 of them… Their loss.  I’m going to contact the store’s PR department!

So from the mall – and another Stewie meltdown (“I can’t walk”) we took the kids to dinner at the Genghis Khan Mongolian Grill.  The kids “ate” while I held a cranky baby so my wife could eat.  I was glad we were all out together and the prospect of eating cold food didn’t matter to me that much considering my wife is with the baby all day and all night and she deserves to eat and have a few minutes to relax.  So we hung there for a couple hours and off to home and bed – 10:30 for both my wife and I.

Sunday began with a rush as we all headed out to the kids karate class.  Stewie and his friend were the only kids in the Little Dragon’s class with 4 sensei’s. They had lots of attention and both did very well.  In Linus’ class, he performed much better than last week, but he was distracted from 2 seriously goofy kids in his class.  One was jumping up and down like a frog and the other was a complete goofball – taking flying leaps at the karate dummy’s and looking out at the parents instead of paying attention.  Must get him away from these boys…

After karate we split the boys up and went to birthday parties – I took Stewie to a party where I knew no one and he was not being adventurous.  He fell in love with a giant gumball machine (he’s never eaten gum) and required me to hold his hand for most of the 2 hours we were there.   We left a touch early and met my wife and baby at a new outdoor mall to check out a new store called Anthropologie… Beautiful clothes there and Linus really liked the fancy door knobs.  We left there to go grocery shopping and from there she took the kids and I drove to the other end of the city to pick up Linus and his friend from their birthday party – set to end at 6pm. 

Once in the Car, I turn on the radio, listen to a little satellite radio, then bored, switch over to real radio only to find out that there were 2 blockbuster NHL traded made by my Toronto Maple Leafs.  The managed to get another team to take 6 average commodities in exchange for 5 new bodies who appear to have more upside and come with a name.  I get Brian Burke now… He’s building the team with young talent… He has my confidence now.  After an awful 5-3 loss Saturday night (after having a 3-0 lead) the team has totally transformed.  WOW.

So I picked the kids up from the party, chatted with some dads about the trades and off to drop my son’s friend, then pick up our nanny to bring her back home.  I learned a very valuable lesson with my son and I in the car… Don’t hold your pee too long or your kidney’s hurt and you pee in your pants… Hopefully we both learned this lesson!  When you gotta go, you gotta go!

Home, snack, bed for the boys, while my wife cared after the baby, I cleaned up the house, showered, and hopped back on my office computer to clean up some files and do some tax research.  Saw the Royal Rumble was last night – Toronto-born wrestler Edge returned from a ruptured Achilles and won the rumble.  Yay.

I started working,  blinked and decided it would be best for my sanity if I went to bed earlier than Friday night, so Sunday night’s bedtime came at 2am… UGH. 

Monday brought a tough, slow morning for me…  The baby is sneezing and her eye looks a little puffy and red, but I have some serious meetings today and an appointment at the gym with my personal trainer…  Also have to get my ass in gear so that I can be home for the kids swimming tonight at 6pm since it’s parent’s night and the one night of the year the parents get to watch the kids swim. Exciting.  My wife is coming to see – she’s never seen them swim.  The boys will be SO happy!

After that it will be some more work, then off to bed so it can all start again tomorrow…

Update: Linus was smiling and waving in the pool and having a fantastic time so we asked him in the car if is always this happy in the pool.  He said “no”.  Puzzled we asked him why he was so happy, and he said, “I don’t know”.  Odd, but he was REALLY REALLY happy.

 

 

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Tuesday Newsday

Tuesday Newsday, an Urbandaddy exclusive!

1)  I get it that a football player dying at a very young age is a tragedy but I also understand that when you are chasing / attacking your fiance by jumping on a moving vehicle and having been in trouble with the law before (and turfed off your team numerous times) you may suffer injuries or even die, like Chris Henry of the Cincinnati Bengal’s did.  At his funeral she said while she may have helped steer him out of trouble, he changed her life. Henry, 26, was killed after he fell out of a pickup bed being driven by his fiance Loleini Tonga during what police described as a domestic dispute.

Police are investigating, but no charges have been filed.

But the comments from his fiance at the funeral re-iterate my comments about what happens when we pay athletes millions and millions of dollars and shove this in the faces of the youth of today.  They think that they don’t need to get a good education and learn about things like… English.

I am not English major by any stretch of the imagination but I know this is just fucked up. 

“Can’t nobody feel what I’m feeling right now. … We loved each other very much. People say I helped change his life. No. He changed mine.  We were supposed to get married in three months, but I’m going to wait until I see him again.”

“Can’t nobody feel”???

Oy.

2)  This is why the world will be a better place once the Taliban are no longer in power…

Taliban blow up Pakistan girls school.  The Taliban blew up a girls’ school in Pakistan’s Khyber district, where troops are fighting against militants in the tribal region bordering Afghanistan, an official said Wednesday.

 3)  I don’t want to call this next story for what it is, but for some reason it slipped under the radar.  If you remove the country “Egypt” and change it to “Israel” you would have seen yet another UN resolution asking for sanctions against Israel, and CUPE here in Canada would have gone ape-shit asking for banning of Israeli professors, or worse, banning the letter “I”.

To think that Egypt is let off the hook for creating a giant steel wall between themselves and the Palestinians in order to keep Palestinians out and shut down the some 150 tunnels, under the guise of national security is ok, but Israel doing the same is apartheid and terrorism.

Makes you wonder if mainstream media is anti-Israel or anti-Semitic?!?

Egypt confirmed on Tuesday it is engaged in construction along its border with Gaza but said it is not building what some reports have said is a steel wall to block cross-border smuggling.  (But it is)

Hamas and other militant groups have called on Egypt to stop building such a wall along the Gaza border and Egyptian security officials have confirmed a steel barrier is being built.

Tunnel builders say around 150 tunnels along the border between Egypt and Gaza provide a vital supply link for the enclave whose imports are blocked by Israel.  The “wall” will go below ground and shut off these tunnels.

“The procedures that Egypt is undertaking inside its lands, whether building or construction work along the border with the Gaza Strip, is an Egyptian concern that is related to Egypt and Egyptian national security.”

4)  In a sad story relating to how unsafe and dangerous the drug trade is in Mexico, a drug cartel shot dead the family of a policeman in retaliation for the killing of their leader and arresting of others.  If drugs were not such a money making venture none of this would happen.  Killing will continue until something gives.

Considering the government will never be able to out fire-power the cartels and there are way too many corrupt officials, Mexico will need to either make it legal and tax the crap out of the cartels or crack down on their exports of drugs and import of weapons.  If drugs are no longer leaving the country, users will look elsewhere…

MEXICO CITY — It had been an elaborate farewell to one of Mexico’s fallen heroes.  The mother of a slain Mexican sailor and his aunt attended his funeral on Monday. Hours later, gunmen killed the women.

Ensign Melquisedet Angulo Córdova, a special forces sailor killed last week during the government’s most successful raid on a top drug lord in years, received a stirring public tribute in which the secretary of the navy presented his mother with the flag that covered her son’s coffin.

Then, only hours after the grieving family had finished burying him in his hometown the next day, gunmen burst into the family’s house and sprayed the rooms with gunfire, killing his mother and three other relatives, officials said Tuesday.

It was a chilling epilogue to the navy lead operation that killed the drug lord, Arturo Beltrán Leyva, and six of his gunmen. And it appeared to be intended as a clear warning to the military forces on the front line of Mexican President Felipe Calderon’s war against Mexico’s drug cartels: not only you, but your family is a target as well.

Prosecutors, police chiefs and thousands of others have been killed in the violence gripping Mexico, with whole families sometimes coming under attack during a cartel’s assassination attempt. But going after the family of a sailor who had already been killed is an exceedingly rare form of intimidation, analysts say, and illustrates how little progress the government has made toward one of its most important goals: reclaiming a sense of peace and order for Mexicans caught in the cross-fire.

The military and police forces who have been fighting the drug war typically cover their faces with ski masks to protect their identities. But the government generally releases the names of police officers and soldiers who have been killed in the drug war.

Responding to the killings on Tuesday, Mr. Calderón said, “These contemptible events are proof of how unscrupulously organized crime operates, attacking innocent lives, and they can only strengthen us in our determination to banish this singular cancer.”

 
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Posted by on December 23, 2009 in Life

 

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I am the worst Daddy in the world…

At least last night I was.

You see, the Happy Boy’s bedtime, for the first couple years of his life, was at 7:30pm. Recently, he has decided that he wants to stay up and play, eat, sit on my lap, etc. This has resulted in bed-time being 9pm. Not cool.

So last night, I’m in my Finance class, listening to the professor with my headphone and the Happy Boy is going nuts… wants to sit on my lap, sit under the table, go behind me… So as he tries to go behind me, I hear, barely audible, through by headphones, “excuse me, Daddy”, so I go to pull my chair in and drop the back corner right on his foot, catching the last two toes. He screamed, UrbanMummy appears, and I threw off my heat set… No blood, just a scrape. He was not happy. Real tears,

I explained to Urban Mummy what happened and she looked at me and said, “You’re lucky you didn’t break his toes”. Our son then spun towards me and sad, “Daddy, you break it… you break my foot”. Nice… Chastised by an almost 2 1/2yr old.

So we got him to bed, he said it was feeling better and he was out the second his head hit the pillow.

End of the story???

Not at all… read on.

So normally in the morning when I am in the kitchen and the Happy Boy wakes up, he tip toes out of his room, comes to the very open staircase, and yells downstairs, “Hi Daddy, Hi, Hi Daddy”. I ask him to come downstairs, and he is as happy to see me as I am to see him.

But not this morning.

This morning he came downstairS, walked into the kitchen, right over to me with a very serious look on his face, came right up to me and said this… “Daddy, no put chair on toe again. OK. No hurt Happy Boy. OK. You broke it. Fix it. OK. No hurt Happy Boy.. OK.. OK… OK.”

Yikes!

It was an accident. I told him that. I apologized, again. Told him it was an accident… again. I already feel like crap.

I scooped him up and gave him a big hug and kiss.

He smiled at me.

Then he opened his mouth and said, “feels better Daddy”.

Awwwwwww.

To think he spent all night worrying about chewing me out this morning to make sure I never do that again. He must have been searching for another family. Geez.

When did the almost 2 1/2 year old grow up?!?

 
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Posted by on June 8, 2007 in Baby Boy, family, Life

 

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Help needed from my reader(s) with my final case project for my MBA program

I’m stuck and need your help.

Yes you.

I need a underachieving technology to perform a MBA study on.

Know of one?

Or maybe you know of a product you have heard about, or used, that just didn’t seem to fit? Have your thoughts and opinions heard, then studied.

My MBA project team, needs to find such a product and with the assistance of the owner of this / these product(s) we will perform a complete evaluation of it and offer any recommendations to the company to help the technology hopefully with a new life. All this is under the guidence of our professor who was a member of the marketin team that brought Tic Tac’s to Canada.

Please reply ASAP!!

Thanks

 
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Posted by on May 1, 2007 in Life, school

 

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2004 Year in Review

2004 is coming to an end and here are the stories which will remain with me for years to come.
Besides the upcoming birth of my first child (due any day now).
So while there were many winners and losers in 2004 — most notably in the USA, President Bush and John Kerry, respectively — but many more found themselves in muddy middle ground.  Coalition forces had success and failure in Iraq, and terrorists struck in Spain and Russia.  Debate raged over same-sex marriage, media standards and other “moral values” issues. The 9/11 Commission hearings and reports; Yasser Arafat, Ronald Reagan and others’ deaths; and court cases involving Kobe Bryant, Scott Peterson and Michael Jackson left uneasiness as a new year dawned. 2004′s final days were dominated by an earthquake and tsunamis that left more than 150,000 dead from Thailand to Somalia.

1. The US Presidential election – An intense race for the American presidency led to the unfortunate re-election of President George W. Bush over Democratic challenger John Kerry.  As in 2000, the election came down to one state. This time, it was Ohio’s 20 electoral votes that put Bush over the top.  Unlike 2000, Bush also won the popular vote with 51 percent to Kerry’s 48 percent.  The election further tipped the balance of power decisively into the Republican corner in Washington as the party won larger advantages in the Senate and House.  Nationwide, voters turned out in droves, with a turnout rate approaching 60 percent, the highest since 1968.

2.  Iraqi war – Insurgents in Iraq used car, suicide and roadside bombings to chip away at U.S. and coalition efforts to reconstruct the country and institute the nation’s first democratic government since the fall of Saddam Hussein’s regime.  Terrorist and insurgent groups took up the grisly practice of kidnapping and beheading foreign hostages (which always found their way onto the Internet… UGH, bidding to compel countries to leave the U.S.-led coalition. Public sentiment towards this war changed forever, when in April, 2004, a series of graphic photographs of U.S. soldiers mistreating Iraqi prisoners was revealed.  At least five detainees died in U.S. custody in Iraq or in Afghanistan.

3. Terrorism – Terror attacks killed hundreds in 2004.  Nearly 200 people died in explosions that struck train stations in Madrid in March, attacks later blamed on al Qaeda.  In Russia, Chechen rebels seized control of an elementary school and took hostages. After two days, the siege ended bloodily with more than 300 adults and children dead.  In the United States, there were no attacks but the U.S. Supreme Court dealt the Bush administration a setback by ruling that U.S. and non-U.S. citizens alike seized as potential terrorists can challenge their treatment in U.S. courts.

4. Natural Disasters – The year ended with one of the most horrific natural disasters in recorded history: a 9.0 earthquake in the Indian Ocean that spawned devastating tsunamis that killed at least 150,000 people from Thailand to Somalia. Tsunamis left hundreds of thousands more without homes, food, fresh water or power and struck both impoverished villages and rich tourist sites, sparing few areas in the waves’ path. The United Nations urged donor countries to contribute materials and money, saying this could be the costliest disaster ever. The tsunamis came several weeks after the close of one of the most active Atlantic hurricane seasons in recent years. By late summer, several major storms had hit Florida, the U.S. East Coast and the Caribbean.
5. The 9/11 Commission – The independent commission investigating the September 11 attacks cited a “failure of imagination” that kept U.S. officials from understanding the al Qaeda threat before the attacks that killed nearly 3,000. The 570-page report recommended changes to the U.S. intelligence community, including establishing a Cabinet-level intelligence director. An intelligence overhaul bill based on the commission’s findings was passed late in the year, but not before many House Republicans insisted on changes they said would prevent gaps in the military’s use of intelligence, and address immigration and border security issues.
6. Yasser Arafat (finally) dies – For decades, he was the symbol of the Palestinian cause.  At times, the 1994 Nobel Peace Prize winner (no laughing please… He really did win it) was viewed as a figure intent on promoting peace with Israel; at other times, he was seen as leader of the violent struggle that used suicide bombings against Israelis in hopes of establishing an independent Palestinian state.  Arafat died in a Paris hospital on November 11, after months of health problems.  While many mourned his passing, others saw his death as an opportunity for Palestinians and Israelis to start anew their attempts to forge a lasting peace.
7.  Crossing a line – Exit polls from the 2004 election suggested voters who cited “moral values” as most important to them may have assured President Bush a second term.  If so, they did so in a year rife with debate on ethical issues — starting with an outcry over media decency after Janet Jackson’s “wardrobe malfunction” at the Super Bowl halftime show (where Justin Timberlake ripped her shirt open exposing her left breast by “accident”)  ”The Passion of the Christ,” a el Gibson anti-semitic film portraying Jews in a bad light as having killed Jesus, grossed almost $90 million in it’s first three days in theaters, while Michael Moore’s anti-Bush diatribe “Fahrenheit 911″ became the most profitable documentary ever.  Months after Massachusetts’ first legal same-sex marriages, voters in 11 states stupidly backed referendums making it illegal.  In June, the Supreme Court reversed a lower-court decision that teacher-led recitation of the Pledge of Allegiance in public schools is unconstitutional, ruling that the California father who filed the case did not have the legal standing to do so.
8. Former US President Ronald Reagan dies – Former President Ronald Reagan died at his California home on June 5, nearly 10 years after announcing that he was suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. The nation spent a week saying farewell to the former president, who led a conservative revolution and helped bring about the end of the Cold War during his two terms in office. He was laid to rest at his presidential library in California after a state funeral in Washington, D.C.
9. Crisis in the Sudan finally gets the world’s attention – Civil war continued to ravage Sudan in 2004, with some international leaders — including U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell — accusing the Sudanese government of committing genocide against black villagers. Critics singled out the government-backed Janjaweed Arab militia, which is accused of widespread murder, rape and arson.  Human rights groups estimate up to 30,000 civilians have been killed in clashes between black rebels and government forces, with more than 1.2 million people left homeless.
10. The Boston Red Sox win the World Series -  For 86 years, and especially since the club traded then-pitcher and future slugger Babe Ruth, Boston Red Sox fans have watched their team fall short of a championship only to watch their bitter rivals, the New York Yankees, rack up 26 titles. Finally, this fall, generations of Red Sox Nation had very good reason to celebrate.  The club became the first in baseball history to rally from a 3-0 series deficit to win the American League pennant, the comeback made that much sweeter given they steamrolled the Yankees to do it.  Boston rolled into the World Series and swept the St. Louis Cardinals, who had ended the regular season with the best record in Major League Baseball.
These stories, no doubt, will be remembered by the world for years come come.
From a Canadian point of view, 2004 brought the following newsstories to the forefront…
2004 brought the avian flu – and panic –  to Canada and confirmed that one case of BSE originated here, forcing the slaughter of millions of birds in B.C. and closing the country’s borders to beef sales.
Paul Martin’s Liberals were (sadly) given a minority government.
A fire aboard HMCS Chicoutimi on its first voyage as a Canadian ship brought the entire submarine fleet into question, not surprising, considering the fleet would lose a war against a bunch of 4 year olds, with it being old and run down.

The continuing U.S. occupation of Iraq saw the deaths of more than 1,000 American troops and thousands of Iraqis. Images of prisoner abuse prompted apologies from American leaders.

A bitter election year in the U.S. ended with the re-election of George W. Bush as president.

Hundreds died after Chechen rebels took children hostage in a school in Beslan, Russia.

The death of Yasser Arafat marked a turning point in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.
The election in Ukraine give us two Viktors, but no winner, and a revote on Boxing Day, bringing the Ukraine into the world spot light and introducing the Orange Revolution to the world.

On Mars, NASA’s rovers took stunning pictures of the alien landscape and made startling discoveries about the planet’s past, including the possibility that liquid water once flowed there.

Best wishes for a wonderful 2005.
 
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