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Urban Daddy Investigates: What happened to the patio at the Starbucks at 1740 Avenue Road?

On Wednesday of this week, I was asked by the community – my former community of 8 years, actually - to investigate the disappearances of the patio on the north side of the Starbucks at 1740 Avenue Road (at St.Germain) and right across from the fantastic Safari restaurant (the best Chipotle Corn Chowder in the city and amazing lamb burgers!)

This patio means a lot to the community. There is a Facebook page devoted to making this patio and the locals who frequent it into a reality show. I could totally see that. Students, local residents, real estate agents, all kinds of people flocked to that patio to sit, chat and consume Starbucks products. This patio is one of a kind in that upper-middle class area of Toronto and It was the place to be seen… And heard.

Our urban family, often spent time hanging out there with our real estate agent, Mr. Real Estate himself, Marshall Cohen or with my in-laws where the kids would watch the world go by eating oatmeal, yogurt or mint frappuccino chip (oops, that last one was me).  More common was myself with a grande Americano while the kids covered themselves in yogurt or ate the pre-packaged egg, apple, cheese snack.

Ask anyone who has sat there or walked by and they will tell you about the characters who hang out there.  Some seem to be there ALL the time.  One common memory was of the guy with the full-length fur coat (but not a real fur coat, that’s cruel) smoking his cigars, of the elderly couple who meet there every day to chat with the neighbour and their family before everyone heads out to the office or for a stroll. 

I checked online to see if the City of Toronto had posted some patio guidelines or amended the official plan to prohibit patios from the West side of Avenue Road and found only one possible link to a draft City-wide zoning bylaw amendment to the official plan relating to Patio’s, drafted by Toronto City Planning department. 

Outdoor Patios

Proposed rules under the draft City-wide zoning by-law

Area 2 (part of the Former City of Toronto): -rear yard patios are not permitted in CR zones -side yard patios are permitted up to a maximum 50% of the building depth

and

-maximum size restriction (the greater of 30m2 or 30% of GFA)

-separation from Residential zones (40m if elevated & 10m if not elevated)

-entertainment uses not permitted

Since it is not clear to me whether or not these proposals were made permanent, or even if there was a public consultation, or if the slightly raised patio was within 10 meters of the residential property to the West of the location so I reached out to my friend, Ward 16 City Councillor Karen Stintz to ask for an update as to why the city asked Starbucks to remove the patio and why one cannot be added back to that spot.  I explained the value of this patio to our community and the fact that Tim Horton’s which had just opened up further north on Avenue Road asked for and was granted a permit for a kick-ass patio, yet this Starbucks location was not.

I was curious to hear what she has to say on this matter.  She is very alert to issues within her ward.

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About the Urban Daddy

I update the about me section of this blog and thought it might be time to post it in order to answer questions I frequently get sent to me via email and twitter.  Who I am and what I do…

About me

I am the urban daddy because my wife of 11 years who got me into blogging in 2004 was calling herself the urban mummy. It only made sense.

I am a father of two boys, Linus (because he carries around a security blanket and a white stuffed cat which is my avatar) who is 7 and Stewie (because we feel he’s trying to kill us) who is 5. Our baby girl, Berry (who makes us laugh) is 2-years-old. We live in mid-town urban Toronto where we live our lives as a laid back, no fuss family. We eat healthy (my wife was a vegetarian for 12 years when I met and converted her – but she has recently returned to the land of veggies). She is studying to be a holistic nutritionist.

Both her and I have our Master’s degrees, her in education, me a MBA which we completed with newborns preventing us from sleeping. Crazy, eh?

I love politics, especially Canadian, and have fundraised for Councillor Karen Stintz and was approached by the Conservative Party to run municipally or provincially in my riding. I would have, except I love my job as a taxation executive.

I’m also a sports junkie, love playing ball hockey (21 years in organized league play), and watching it on TV. I also love wrestling and Star Wars so my nerd side gets equal jock play too.

I have always been on the slightly more than I should weigh side, gained that with Linus’ birth and have yet to shed it.  Yes, it’s my pregnancy weight!  I have been described as being freakishly strong and can run 5K in my sleep, now.

I’ve been blogging since 2004 and have made some year-end award lists, been mentioned by CBS news, asked to be on a local Canadian TV show as their daddy blogger expert and been ripped for my views by some really great people and some real jerks. My views.  My opinions.

You’ll find a lot of posts about my kids, about politics, coffee, Toronto, sports, pop culture, current events and things I endorse for free, and things I think people should steer clear of.

Everything here comes out of my head and this blog is meant to allow me to empty my head of thoughts and opinions and if you choose to read and like it or if you find something offensive let me know. Just nothing personal, racist or rude. I can delete them… And block you. :)

I also blog for money, but I won’t ask, it’s a bonus and not the reason I blog. If you want an expert opinion, or a family opinion on a wide range of things, drop me an email at realurbandaddy@gmail.com. I have a large pool of contacts and connections who can assist too. I’m on twitter @urbandaddyblog and on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/pages/Urban-Daddy/109554365740659?ref=ts . Find me, drop me a note, like me, vote for me… All that jazz!

Those who do not call me “Daddy” or “Urban Daddy” call me Warren, but as Linus liked to tell his teacher when we have to meet with her / him, “His name is Warren but they call him the urban daddy”.

Read on… You might actually like something here…

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Randomness of my thoughts – Parenting, Life and the Grammy Awards

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I’ve got a lot of stuff floating around my head and I started dumping it all into this post last week so that my head would not hurt so much.  As such, I was fully prepared to finish and publish this post Saturday night but it got delayed when I realized the amount of work needed to edit it for poor grammar and spelling.  Saturday became Sunday, which bumped into Monday, then Tuesday… OY.  So I’m hoping you are reading this and today is Wednesday.

So what happened you ask?

I sat down Sunday to work on this post and when I logged onto the Internet, I found the Twittersphere was abuzz with the Grammy awards.  I used to LOVE the Grammy’s because it regularly fell on my birthday, February 21st and it was the only award show that recognized talent, not just popularity.  Quality over quantity.  In addition, many of the singers actually sang during their performances, and that made the show much better than other award shows where the artists lip synched and were there to look cool, and not to be respected by the music community.  Those shows, ahem, MTV music awards, always looked like a giant scripted video where artists dress in torn jeans, get loaded and swore on stage.  The Grammy’s, on the other hand, have always had much more class… Until this year!

I still was not going to watch the show, but someone tweeted that Bruno Mars and Alicia Keys shared the same hairstyle, and that peaked my curiosity, so on went the TV and I was hooked.  To be honest, the Grammy’s and Twitter make for a great pair.  I watched, tweeted, re-tweeted and met some new cool people, and got to know some of my contacts better,  It made for a very interactive event and I got to share my love of music with others also in the know.

So back to my comment about how classy the Grammy’s are and how they failed Sunday night… The Grammy’s not only had two performances from Chris Brown, but they also gave him awards,  Two of them.  Chris Brown. 

For those of you not familiar with him, he is the former boyfriend of singer Rhianna and one night he lost his temper and beat her.  She went public with the picture of her battered and bruised face and instead of coming clean, Brown put a sour look on his face and carried on with his life.

So he thinks it’s okay to hit women.

That’s so not cool.

If I’m a woman (which I’m not) and I’m a R&B fan (which I’m not) or a human being who loves music (which I am), I would NEVER EVER buy, or download another Chris Brown song again.  But instead of ignoring him, the Grammy’s had him perform and man the Twittersphere was not amused.  What were the Grammy’s thinking???  As a matter of fact, the best R&B award had him and R. Kelly – who videotaped sex with a 15-year-old, and Kanye West is a hot-tempered, spoiled brat and a sore loser and this is the cream of the R&B crop?!?  I think this category can do better, don’t you?

But what saved this award show was Adele.  She was appreciative and she has a magnificent voice.  That and she’s not 98 pounds means she is a role model for the next generation of woman, now Lady Gaga who looked like she got caught in a fish net on the way into the award show.

LL Cool J called Sir Paul McCartney his “homie”.  LOL.

Dave Grohl, of the Foo Fighters dissed pretty much every other band by saying they recorded their Best Rock Album in their garage with a tape recorder.  I believe he also dissed the performers who were not really singing.  Classic.

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Other random stuff:

Why do guys have to non-verbally announce the impending of bodily functions in public washrooms. The grunts, groans, “Oh my g-d’s” before and “whews” after are so not cool. Entertaining but not cool.  Especially when one of my kids asks out loud why was that person grunting before they poo’d, loud enough so they can hear too.

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Everyday driving home across Eglinton Avenue in Toronto, I pass a strip mall (pun intended) which has the following businesses;
A XXX Adult video store – tinted covered windows so the perverts cannot see inside
A Ready Lube
Aromatic Sensation “Massage” parlour.

I think the Ready Lube has to go… It’s bringing down the neighbourhood. lol.  But seriously, do you need the ready lube to visit either of the locations?

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Speaking of “massages” has anyone heard the song Pornstar dancing by My Darkest Days?

Or what about I’m Alive by Anthrax? my new favourite song next to “Call my Mamma” the WWE Brodus Clay theme song.

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I’m working on a new blog post based on a comment made by TTC Chair and Toronto City councillor Karen Stintz that ”Council is supreme”. Yes it is… Karen… Yes it is.

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Tuesday night the Leafs lost their 4th game in a row and the Raptors lost on a last second 3-pointer from Lin-sanity himself, David Lin – in his 6th professional ball game.  All this losing makes me thankful the Toronto Rock play this Saturday at home, and makes me REALLY look forward to next week when pitchers and catchers can report for Major League Baseball (MLB) spring training. 

On February 19th it is the voluntary report date for pitchers, catchers and injured players to report to spring training.

February 24th, full squads may report

February 29th, is the first exhibition game between the Philadelphia Philies and Florida State University.

YAY!  The truest sign that spring is on the way!

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Last random thought of the day: Have any of you seen the show Ink Master?  If so, it’s crazy, right!  If not, let me tell you a little about if from the 20 minutes I caught yesterday. 

8 people are competing to find the next best tattoo artist.  The “artists” have to tattoo their “canvas” aka human beings in the manner they want.  For example, one guy wanted a head tattoo, the other a celtic braid around his flabby bicep with the New York skyline sitting on top of the braid.

The concept seems completely fucked up and then you realize how truly messed up it is when they show the work done by these “artists” such as crooked work, poor shading,and pain.  One guy having a head tattoo done needed to be taken to the hospital by EMT.  UGH.

The way I see it the “artists” are up and coming tattoo artists and as such are prone to make mistakes – such as crooked designs or poor shading and they have to complete their art within a limited time frame, like 4 hours.  So one of the tattoo artists had to do a head tattoo in 6 hours but he didn’t finish it.  Then in the next competition, he got another head tattoo to do and the poor guy that wanted it must have seen the look of displeasure on his face but still went through with it.  Yeah, that’s what I want… Some guy doing a tattoo on my head when he a) did one that was brutal and b) doesn’t want to do another.  Yeah, stick that needle in my head, buddy.  NOT.

If the intention of this show is to dissuade kids from wanting tattoos then it worked.  Personally I cannot think of anything I would want to get tattooed permanently on my body, let alone by some amateur during a contest for TV.  Yikes.

 

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Where are the Rob Ford haters now?

As 2011 rolls along (project 365, as someone called it) I’m wondering where all the Rob Ford haters are right now. They sure have been quiet since the kerfuffle over Don Cherry calling them “pinkos”. I hope they were not actually offended?!?

I gather they are quiet because since Ford took power he has;

Made the TTC an essential service.
Put Councillor (future mayor and my old City Councillor) Karen Stintz in charge of the TTC
Removed the $60.00 “fee” (I prefer to call it a tax) on registering a vehicle in Toronto
Moving to remove the Land Transfer Tax
Announced he is moving to remove the bag tax of $0.05 for plastic bags purchased in Toronto (if council wants to)
Stopped sending our garbage to Michigan.
Cut Councillors expense accounts from $52,000 a year to $30,000 a year(the taxpayers money councillors spend on stuff)

And he announced that he is not anti-bike and will be unveiling more and safer bike routes for the biking community in Toronto.
He is not done considering a light-rail / subway for Eglinton connecting Scarborough to the airport
and his resolution for 2011 is to lose sme weight.

Not bad.
Saving us taxpayers some money and removing stupid hidden taxes put in place by David Miller.
How awful of him…
I remember the night of his election people tweeting that they were going to move out of Toronto because this was going to destroy the city… Yup.

So I’m going to take a moment and put on my left-wing hat, and figure out how I would reply to this post.
I would probably reply with this comment, saving you all the time to have to type it for yourself;

“Yes Urban Daddy, you right-wing capitalist bastard, he’s cutting taxes but how is he going to pay for services? I’ll tell you… He’s going to cut services and apply userfees!”

Well, Lefties (and I am left-handed so do be offended) I would like present this case in my defense of not wanting to tax the rich to give to the poor… Your hero, David Miller put in place all these taxes and fees because he wanted to point out how poorly the previous mayor treated the city and to pay for all his giving to make every Torontonion equal… Then upon stepping down from being mayor, in order to preserve his “legacy” he announced that he left the city better than it was when he took over, with a surplus! Pardon me.
surplus would mean his additional taxes needed to run the city were either a cruel joke or a huge miscalculation of the debits and credits at City Hall.

That’s like me running a free swimming pool, then suddenly charging users $10.00 a visit because without it the pool will have to close, then after doing this for 5 years saying, Look everyone, I have $2 million extra dollars in the bank”… Not nice!

So I for one am happy that for dinner last night there was no gravy. Staying away from that stuff can help me shed some pounds… That and not wearing pink!

BEAUTY!

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An urban daddy exclusive: The truth behind the RioCan 1717 Avenue Road development.

The following is my account of what happened at 1717 Avenue Road, the former blockbuster / LCBO plaza, which is fast becoming the 7 story RioCan Residences on Avenue Road. I was part of the working group set up by Councillor Karen Stintz, whose purpose it was to negotiate with the representatives from RioCan and resident’s in the area, along with City planners in order to meet the needs of all three parties.

That process failed miserably and there is a 7-story reminder on Avenue Road and precedent set for future developments on that affluent strip of road.

It is not my intention to single anyone out, but rather just want to set the record straight once and for all as to what happened in this working group. I have been asked MANY times over by residents as to what really happened, and when I tell them I was involved they seem surprised. I tell them what I witnessed and experienced and they are all shocked. My friend suggested I post it so anyone interested will be able to read what I went through. Granted this was a few years ago, so some of my details might be off, but the gist of the story, I will never forget.

So let’s go back to the beginning.

There is a large parcel of land in mid-town Toronto, on Avenue Road specifically which is a middle-to-upper-middle class area of the city. This parcel of land is owned by RioCan and housed a LCBO (liquor store), a Blockbuster video location, a juice bar and a Mr. Sub location. This area is predominently residential, with 2 story commercial buildings lining the street. The tallest building on Avenue Road from Wilson (the 401) to Lawrence is mainly 2 stories – taking out the Bedford Glen development at the corner of Avenue Road and Sylvan Valleyway which is 6 stories but 2-3 of those stories are underground.
On this lot, RioCan put in a proposal to the City to erect a 7 story mixed residential / commercial complex in place of the LCBO / Blockbuster / Booster Juice and ample free parking.

Knowing and understanding that resident’s in the area would be against this development, due to its enormity and increased traffic flow on their streets, the City Councillor, Karen Stintz, quickly moved to set up a working group to discuss the proposal. This working group included some close neighbours, the three local residents’ groups and some concerned citizens. As president of the residents group in the area I was included.

The working group spent the better part of the next 6 months meeting with the Councillor and her staff, the Planner for RioCan (who was former Mayor Mel Lastman’s head urban planner for 13 years), the city planner and the rest of the group, learning about density, the lie of the building, shading, commercial vs residential property and the whole planning process in the city, including the role of the Ontario municipal Board (OMB) who would ultimately and unfortunately have the final say on this matter.

During this process, we had traffic studies done, created a plan for Avenue Road, met with the public to discuss options and had town hall sessions to go over options. The Councillor kept the public up to date on the proceedings, including posting minutes of the meetings on her web-site (probably still there).

We all knew deep down inside, and quite possibly discussed the fact that something was going to get built on this site by RioCan. It was their right. The only decision they had to make was whether they were going to comply with zoning and build a smaller, less dense complex, or if they were going to ask for amendments to the official plan from the City, knowing they might get rejected and have to apply to the OMB where they could go as ask for the moon. It was just a matter of doing what was right for the community. This development on Avenue Road was the first large-scale development in decades and would set the precedent for any further development. Considering is was determined by the city that there were 7 other potential sites identified which could house this kind of development, we had quite the responsibility in front of ourselves.

Towards the end of the process, RioCan came to the table with 3 models they had built which would fit the site. One was a 2-story model which would have used up some of the residential land at the back of the complex, one was a 4-story, tiered-back model which used up only the mixed commercial / residential land available and RioCan would build a house on the residential piece which would be joined to the complex and the last one was a 6-story, tiered back model at the 4th floor, of which the 6th story was only one unit. Missing from this selection was the original 7 story-model they first showed us, which we all felt was way too big for this part of the City.

By this point in the negotiation, it was clearly obvious to the Councillor and most of the group that there were some residents, 2 or 3 of them if I recall correctly, who lived on the other side of Avenue Road who were nit-picking every aspect of each model. They argued about shading, they disputed traffic surveys, they questioned density. They seemed to be less interested in negotiating a solution and hell-bent on quashing this development.

I recall having a conversation with one of the 3 residents, the apparent leader, when I thought they were going to jeopardize these negotiations about the OMB. He shared with me their intentions and told me that they had been meeting secretly, behind the back of the RioCan rep and the Councillor. He said their goal was to squash this development before it starts. He said they were lawyers and had connections to other lawyers and for the right price all the citizens could give a nominal amount, like $10.00 each and we could fight RioCan all the way to the OMB. He added that one of their group had relatives who used to build shopping malls and as a result that made him feel that he understood the development process in the City. So they had decided to decline all RioCan’s options and instead force them to go to the OMB, and fight them there.

I remember as if it were yesterday taking him outside on the patio of the facility we were in and asking him if he had ever been involved in negotiations like these before or if he had any idea about the power the OMB possesses. He told me that he knew they would be successful fighting RioCan at the OMB.
I reminded him that I was sitting in with other resident’s groups at different times as they fought the Minto Towers at Yonge and Eglinton (2-approx 50 story towers), the Rosewell Gardens complex at Avenue Road and Lawrence and the Crystal Palace at Yonge and Eglinton. I had been involved in residents’ groups for a good 4 years, at that time, and had recently joined a group called FONTRA, the Federation of North Toronto Residents’ Associations. Two of those three developments went to the OMB and the residents lost big-time in each case.

He did not care. He acted like he knew better…

I explained to him that the OMB operates erratically and usually to the favour of the builder. The OMB has been known to take conflicts where the City wants to development capped at 4 stories and the builder wants permission for 10 stories for the OMB to approve 12 stories. I reminded him that we cannot stop RioCan from building, that they can build on this parcel of land according to the official plan and he said that they should do just that. I reminded him that they can apply for an amendment to the official plan – well within their right – and still build what they want.

I told him this was a mistake and they should not challenge RioCan but rather agree with the models or leave the group before more harm is caused. I referred him back to some rather odd suggestions and comments that he made earlier in the process to the RioCan planner. He wanted RioCan to build all 40 condo units without parking spots. Then he tried to argue that RioCan should not building a condo of that size on Avenue Road because of the “undesirables” that this project would bring to our middle class / upper middle class area.

Folks…

We’re talking about condos starting at $800,000 and topping out at $2 million dollars each.

No parking?

Undesirables? Yup. We don’t want any rich folks in this area… They might buy stuff in the stores on the strip…

Huh?

The end came for this working group when we were all looking over the models RioCan had developed, when this breakaway group comes forward at tells all of us that they are rejecting all the models. They tell the group that they have been meeting on their own and will not be attending any other meetings with the group, and at that point they tell the RioCan representative that they will be presenting a case to the OMB.

Obviously disappointed and feeling quite frustrated, RioCan’s urban planner asks the Councillor and myself if we knew about this plan – which we did not – and he then pulls out of his bag 7-story model – what they had sought originally, and tells this renegade group that RioCan will be asking for – well within their rights – an 8 story building so that they guarantee they get the 7-story model they wanted.

To make a long story short…

This renegade group of concerned neighbours went to the OMB and lost.

Presently, RioCan is nearing completion of a seven story mixed commercial / residential complex which towers over its nearest neighbour. Probably the most disturbing part of this process, for me, is the precedent this large-scale development sets for the strip. As a result of the actions of a few, developers are licking their chops when looking at Avenue Road to build. I know, because I have spoken to a few of them.

So today the largest building on the strip is 7-storeys, tomorrow it could be 9, next week 11… You just never know when the OMB is involved, and when residents are fighting against each other instead of mobilizing towards a common goal.

I know that Councillor Stintz would not single out these few folks when discussing this development and she took a lot of heat from residents for allowing this to happen. It wasn’t her fault in the least. If you could have seen the look on her face when this went down, you would know she was shocked, disappointed and angry, as were the rest of us.

I always felt odd, having been on this working group, and knowing what I saw, heard and was a part of. Hearing second and third hand stories from, neighbours and people sitting at the Starbucks right across the street from the complex, knowing it is all speculation was getting to me.
I will always look at the size of that development and recall how much it appeared to me that RioCan wanted to work with the community in light of the fact that they could have just applied to the committee of adjustment for a 20 story building, took it to the OMB and received permission for a 7, 8 or 9 story building… But they didn’t. They engaged the community and were treated like crap.

I was embarrassed.

Now the truth is out there.

But I don’t feel any better…

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Thursday Thirteen

13 Things I like about our new house / neighbourhood

13. The neighbours. Not that the neighbours in our old neighbourhood were no good, it’s just that there were not that many kids on our end of the street. Our new neighbours have a ton of kids and nannies people walking in the streets. As well, while moving we left the doors open and neighbours actually came inside to welcome us. Very nice!
12. Stores – The stores, especially the restaurants, are way better in our new neighbourhood. Lots of good stuff to do, see and buy.
11. Parks – While our old neighbourhood had 4 parks within a 10 minute walk from our house, our new neighbourhood has 2 super-parks within 5 minutes from our house AND a mega-park 6 minutes away.
10. It’s more urban and I am, afterall, the Urban Daddy…
9. Schools – One of the main reasons to move was to be close to my son’s (and eventually kid’s) school. We are now within walking distance which is perfect as I walked to school, my wife walked to school and our kids should be able to walk to school.
8. Big basement – Without a garage, the basement is big, clean and functional. Plenty of room for the kids and the nanny and my wife’s crafts.
7. Toilet seats / cabinets – I know, I know, but hear me out. The toilet seats and cabinets cannot be slammed. All my kids have to do is slightly more the seat or lid forward and the damn thing slowly shuts itself… HOW COOL! And the kitchen cabinets, if someone – like my kids – try to slam them shut, the cabinets whip shut be a couple of inches before they would slam, they slow down and shut themselves silently… WOW.
6. A community orchard – This is right up my alley! A block away from our house is a community orchard which is nearing completion. I cannot wait to help grow raspberries and strawberries and waterchestnuts in this orchard – stuff which comes year after year.
5. Cool City Councillor – no offense to our older City Councillor, Karen Stintz who I think is awesome and will be mayor one day (if she wants to be). I helped raise some funds for Karen once she got elected and she has been great for the community, but our new City Councillor, Joe Mihevc has impressed me right away.

I reached out to Joe to see if there were any community groups / organizations which I could volunteer on and within an hour I had received an email from his executive assistant (EA) and then from him providing his personal contact information. He gave me a list of organizations and would like to meet with me to discuss involvement. Very cool…
4. Piano – We received a beautiful piano as a gift from our Real Estate Agent.
3. We also received a really big – not extremely big, but bigger than I have seen HDTV as a gift from my in-laws for the new house.
2. This house completely wired for everything so there are no spots in the house where I cannot get a wireless signal for my laptop as opposed to our old house where there was no where I could get wireless service.
1. It’s our 10-15 year home!

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